Monday, September 15, 2008

This may caught your attention. "Anu un? Anung Kristiano lang?" Well, it is the the greatest bilin that my brother

told me before he went to Cagayan and I just want to elaborate it and share this things to you.

Generally, Chistian men and women who tend to follow the "rule"( of the greatest Love Letter (Word of God, Bible)

)find their love lives too difficult. Well, this could have add to that. (hehe! joke). The world already said "wag

mong hanapin ang pag-ibig, darating yan.." Well, I can say, that "sa 10 mali ng mundo, may isa ring tumama. hihihi".

O off course. The long wait is already there. But, we, like volcanoes are active and is always ready to errupt/fall.

(wuu.. makakakita ka lang ng maganda/pogi sa jeep, pwede na!).

I'll tell you that you should stop your search in love. "HUH??" You should focus preparing yourself. It's not really

on finding the right one, but really being the right one. You should see and ask your self, "Would me marry me?" or

are you prepared enough to be. Be the be. Love isn't love when you just think if that one is the right one for you.

Love is love when you taught that you can be the one and you have all it takes to offer her/him. You shouldn't think

only of the benefits you can get from him but the things that he can get from you. Love is not to yourself because

if it is, it's not love, it's infatuation.

Is she/Is he? How can I know?


The Scipture has told us as well as the pastors to settle for Christians too. so, happen that the local churches has

too many visitors every sunday because of the 'Simbang Ligaw" or the "Evange-ligaw". The strategy of these pasaways

is that they're going to invite their to-be-girlfriend/boyfriend to church. The guy/girl got to be "converted".

Then, the to-be-girlfriend/boyfriend will now be girlfriend/boyfriend. Well, I know that in the minds of the

pastors, they're saying, "Style niyo, bulok" (I am now imagining our head pastor saying that. Hehe"). Is it really

right? And when church leaders came ask them, "Krisitano ba?" at ang sagot ng mga !@#$%, "Opo"". Haay nako!


First, you should ask if he/she is a commited Christian. Hindi yung KRISTIYANON lang You shouldn't settle only for a

church goer/attender. You should go for people like ahm.. I think chris Tomlin, Kristian Stanfill, David crowder,

and if you think that you're as lucky as Shelley, you go for Louie Giglio (hehehe). You settle for someone,

specially if you're a girl, who will lead or push you to God. Someone who will help you to grow. But, thou shall not

focus only for those who's always on the stage of the church. You should see if their lives and love of God worked

too. You kn ow what I mean.

Then, you check his social life. of how he interact with his friends, of his mom, dad, helper, pet and even to the

unfortunates. Because, chances are, if there's already relationship between you and him, specially if you're already

married, the worst that he can do to the those people, stated above, is also the worst thing that he can do to you.

Then you should stop. Is there any chances that God had given you or the both of you to got to know each other. For

as we know, this relationships, starts with friendships, you know, friends know about each other that much. How do

you know about him? Just like an avid fan memorizing every detai of their star.

When you already got to know him/her, you pray if it is His (God) willing that leads you and him/her together. If

there are chances that God is giving you to be with him/her. If there are chances for the both of you to come

together and grow in God. Sweeter, if he/she is praying for you too. Of course, if it is His will, it's mutual.

Then, if it is really His will, paburger ka naman! It's the emotions, the feelings will come after. Then, you want

him/her to see na everyday. Uuuy!

Want to have a greater love story? Ask the Author of Love. Also, you should befriend and be inlove first with the

AUTHOR or LOVE. Seek ye first God, and all these things shall be added unto you. Love life could never be love and

life at all if there's no Jesus Chist who gave his love for life. Gets? Also, how can you know if it's God's leading

if you're not close with God, right?

Ayon, i just want to end this in tagalog, nose bleed na ko! Sana, nawa'y makatulong ako sa inyo at napahirap ko ang

inyong buhay. Lack Good Luck!

Ano? Kristiano Lang? Baka ikaw rin, Kristiano ka lang rin?

God Bless brothers and sisters.

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